I have not involved him in any decisions involving her up to now because I know he trusts that Im doing the right thing otherwise Im sure he would have said differently and like I said showed no interest. A few times she had a fever and never followed up to see how she was doing afterwards. Maybe in time he might want to be more of a good father but I don't see that happening right now and don't want to take the chance that one day he will wake up. He can see her as much as he wants, I will not stop that but I am happy with her current babysitting arrangements. He didn't show an interest in her until he talked to a lawyer. I know he's in a financial pinch but so am I as I have debt too that I would like to get rid of. I have been seeking professional help with all the emotional stuff I have been experiencing and have been able to think outside the box. That's how far I am willing to go for my daughter, I want to be the best possible parent to her and provide her with all ( emotional, physical and developemental) things she needs to be an independant, self confident, happy person.
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