It is possible to lose the spot due to absences, all daycares have a waiting list and there is a huge waiting list for subsidy, and the city (usually the city provides subsidies) is very strict about enforcement. We needed documentation thicker than a phone book just to apply, and we didn't qualify.
It's in the best interest of your child that you co-operate with each other, and in her best interest that don't do anything to jepardize her daycare.
Ask your ex if it just the money, or if the number of absences will put the spot in jeapardy. If she could lose her daycare, you are hurting yourself as well as your child. You aren't really gaining anything. You are already getting the extra time with her.
The ex being a bitch, you can still the best thing for your child.
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