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Old 09-10-2009, 07:37 AM
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Default Ex keeps filing false police reports and not following court order

What can be one or has anyone ever had an ex who continued to call the police and involve them in disagreements or make things up in order to have a police incident report put in so that they can try to use them in court??

I don't understand police incident reports.. they can't hold that much weight in court because what is stopping people from lying in them.. it's the same he said she said battle.

I have a court order that states I can speak to my daughter with unlimited telephone access at reasonable times up to 7:30pm. Sent my ex a text message (as that is how all communication is suppose to be and through a communication book and she will not give me the home phone number so I have to text her and she has daughter call me) at 3pm. Last I was informed she was unemployed and was the one who would be picking our daughter up and dropping her off at school. School ended at 2pm the day this happened and they live a 3 min walk from the school. I did not get any reply and had to get back to work. I sent a total of 4 text messages between 3pm and almost 6pm before she finally replied at 6:20pm to say they were not home. I sent one more to ask if she knew how long that would be because I had to leave soon. No reply. My daughter called at 7pm I spoke to her for almost 15 mins. My ex makes sure she gives me little time to talk to my daughter by doing this and taking time away until 6 or 7pm and making a small window. My daughter mentioned something about going to daycare after school.

I asked to speak to her Mom.. we are suppose to communicate through text message for access and phone calls and through a communication book for everything else. Unfortunately by the time I see my daughter again and get the book it will be eleven days, then she is with me for two days, then I would have to wait another eleven days before I get the book back and that would only be IF her mom is going to give me this information as she feels I don't need it. That would be close to a month before I knew if she would give me this info or not. She took the phone knowing it was me, we spoke and she lost it saying I didn't need to know this and that she was charging me with harassment because I would not stop texting her. She hung up and I sent one more text at just after 7:15pm asking if I could say goodnight and I love you to my daughter as I was not given the chance and she did not reply and I did not send anything else. So I sent a total of 6 messages, 4 she did not reply to, 1 asking for a time frame and 1 more to see if I could say goodnight to my daughter. Is this harassment?

What can I do because I have a court order that says I have the right to the daycare info and she will not give it to me... I have an order that says I can pick my daughter up as early as 3pm on my weekends which I put in the order request because she lives an hour away and I dont' even own a vehicle and she does and she was the one who wanted to move so I borrow a vehicle to go get my daughter.. and she will not let me pick her up any earlier than 5:30pm which was the set time of the pick up with the stipulation of the above.. and I have unlimited telephone access but she makes sure she ignores all my messages until I have only an hour left for a window to talk to her.

And now this is the 3rd time she has called the police with false information. The first time she said I "shoved her" when in fact she was standing in front of the vehicle that had our daughters car seat in it and while we were fighting I pulled the seat out of the car to put it in my friends as I was taking our daughter for the weekend and didn't know she was right behind me and accidently shoved myself back and into her. The second she said I was going to "kidnap" our daughter when in fact her and her fiance moved our daughter without my full consent but she says I signed a piece of paper saying she could and by that she means I sent an offer to settle before our court date that said I would allow the move as well as many other things but she took only that part and went with it when in fact it was a package deal, so she moved our daughter, pulled her from school, disconnected her cell phone and I was told by her finace that if I wanted to talk to her or our daughter I had to ask him first and he would "deem if it was necessary". They took away 1 day a week of my access and made me do all the travel to and from for access all without us having even going to court yet to have said this is what is going to happen. And now this..

Am I just suppose to let her keep making false claims so that if I have to take her back to court because she is not following the order she has all this to try to use against me?? And I believe she is doing it because she is not following the order and I told her my only option would be to take her back to court to which she screamed harrassement and called the police. What can I do??!!
(Sorry so long!)