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Originally Posted by enoughalready
I should give you my ex wifes number and you can tell her your story. I pay exactly what I'm suppose to and increase it when I make more money. I also provide a full benefit package for the boys at 100%. She still tries to hound me constantly about everything. She is the one who ended the marriage and the one who cheated on me. Just bitter I can't explain it. She even married the guy she cheated on me with and had another kid. I just want to get on with my new life with my wonderful wife and new son. It causes such headaches with my new wife with the constance harrassment. We have been divorced since 1998. Move on already. I just think she is jealous because I'm happy and have moved on with my life and doing well. I'm not even bitter with her for cheating. I'm sick of the constant games and harrassment though.
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wow enoughalready,
i just don't get it how the people that love their kids and honor their responsibilities get dumped on.
what's wrong with these parents? are they all mentally ill? in your case after 11 years she should give it a rest. it can't be good for the kids as any time i've met a friend out for vengance for their ex they always talk about it around the kids and ultimately make them very confused about how they should act towards the other parent. that can do no good, those poor kids have to hide their feelings from their angry parent and they quickly learn that it's not only acceptable but also essential to deceive loved ones. kids learn from their parents and if one is acting poorly for so much of their childhoods, they are in danger of learning some really poor relating skills, sets them up for disaster in their own adult relationships unless there is a strong, stoic, responsible parent that stays out of the fray and gives them the stability they crave.
i feel for you!
dal