Okay, she is asking you to decide. That is great as you can rationally think about it. Think of it as a business relationship. Promises and expectations are contracts. All contracts have a termination clause. It works both ways. If she lived off you, then it was an understanding that you support her, but now that you are split, the deal is done. If she became dependent on you, then some financial help to move into another place etc, may be fair. It really should not be that hard for you to understand what is fair - it does not matter what the courts or her gfs say - you lived it, you know the deal. You probably owe her nothing in reality. Its not like you were married. Who are these people who live off of someone and then expect it to continue when you break up? Crazy. Friends always tell you what you want to hear. Forget her gfs. You know what to do. Be fair, be honourable, be true to yourself.
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