Sometimes you just have to step back and decide what is more valuable...no support and joy of having your child without interference of an ex...or support battles and miss out on all the time you could have spent with your child. I know after 8 years of battling...I wish I had done some things very differently. My children are grown up now but I wish I had spent more time with them than in a court room or learning the legal system...to say what? I won...what I spent in the beginning in legal fees could have gone into my childrens' schooling or vacation together....the legal system rapes those who just want to win...in the end...there is no winners.
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