I changed lawyers and i have no idea how to stop the bleeding. ex keeps doing silly things that cause me to have to respond, makes very serious allegations that must be dealt with.
i do not want to continue, his lawyer is now making me attend a questioning on 6 days notice after ignoring our reasonable deadline. my inclination is to have him attend the questioning that we gave him notice for weeks ago and to just not show up and to hope that they will not want to pay for a second questioning that will yield nothing from their end.
the reason for my questioning is to investigate his income, his reason is for same, except he has no reason to do so and his questioning will yield nothing, it's just another money waster.
how do you rein in the lawyers? i don't think there is a way to negotiate with him as he's a hot head, abusive (blasted the plaster off the walls in the courthouse when he started on my lawyer - totally embarassing), he's a bully and will not accept a compromise.
I was hoping that once he got a lawyer and started spending money he would give in.
at this point for me it's a waiting game, costly for both of us.
dal
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