Not sure what contraceptive measures you were using - it certainly doesn't matter at this point. Your now responsible for someone else. I believe we all know that a baby is the possible outcome of unprotected sex. Its silly to leave the contraceptive upto one party. - SILLY!
Not sure what costs your partner had during her pregnancy. Were her OB appointments not covered by the provincial healthcare plan? I am 3 weeks post partum and I didn't have any extra costs while pregnant - only prenatal vitamins.
Its irrelevant that you mention your ex partner is a a brazillian immigrant unless she had to pay out of pocket for medical care. Every Canadian unless you have native status is an immigrant.
Not every parent that is a single parent gets a reduced daycare fee. I'm sure you would have to pay additional money (section 7 ) to help pay the daycare fee.
My guess - and I'm only guessing is that you would have been provided much more access, if you stepped upto the plate! I'm sure you could get more access if you started out slowly. The judge probably lost his tolerance and thats why you only got 15mins access.
Step up and be a parent!
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