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Old 09-18-2017, 11:13 AM
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Default Help with time

Hi All,

I have a question about who gets time allocated to them.

My ex and I have 50/50 placement (The order says she has custody with 10 pages pretty much taking away all her rights to make any decisions) and I pay offset child support. I have the kids every Thursday-Sunday except 1 weekend a month and 1 weekend, I keep the kids until Monday at school. We settled this in January. My ex however now wants to return to work (After 10 years on welfare, I am all for this!) but wants to change the schedule to help so she doesn't need child care (I work nights so I am home during the day)

She wants to change it to me getting the kids from school (around 4:00) and then keeping them until 7 every day after school. In exchange she wants to change back to every other weekend. (I would keep my Thursday overnights). My question is, if she is bringing them to school Monday-Thursday and I am picking them up Monday-Friday and bring them to school on Fridays, who does the time at school get allocated to? I have always had Fridays allocated to me because it states that if the children are not at school on a Friday, I am to get them.

My ex is extremely manipulative and she was very upset that i got equal time with the kids so I am worried she is just trying to change the status quo in her favor and go back to court to up the child support again. I want to make sure that we still get equal time but I am very excited of the possibility of seeing my kids everyday and getting to have dinner with them so much!
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