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Old 09-04-2017, 06:28 PM
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one big thing to think about when trying to come up to an agreement with access, think about how you would feel if it was being offered to you. I know you changed the stance on weekends, but as an example, how would you feel if your ex offered that she keeps all the weekends? Always put yourself in the other persons shoes. That way it makes sure that you are trying to be reasonable. If it isnt acceptable to you then why would something be acceptable to your soon to be ex?

You are on the right track, keep your head held high and dont resort to mudslinging as this goes on. Let her be the one to sink to that level. You keep dong things that are child focused and you will be okay.
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