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Old 09-01-2017, 03:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Whoknew View Post
- I'm repeatedly trying to reconcile as well...
The above is a more fundamental problem.
Step 1 - Stop trying to reconcile.
Step 2 - Stand your ground.

The reason why she will not give you 50/50 is because she wants to take you for the Guideline amount of CS for 2. Keeping this in mind will help you in step 1.

Some tips for step 2:
- Do not dig yourself into a hole by consenting to a bad interim order. The interim could be, and by default is, the rest of your life.
- Do not write something like "she was the primary caregiver" in your affidavits, as that is another way you can dig yourself into a hole.
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