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Old 07-02-2017, 09:41 PM
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I'd drop the name-change thing. It's kind of a low-blow and all it does is inflame matters. (Kid can change his name when he's 18).

Some things to suggest at the 4-way: voluntary drug testing - ask him for ideas on how you can be assured that he isn't using when has son (put it to him to come up with solution/suggestions); cell phone for son with agreement that son call you at any time and you will pick him up should father be using; parenting courses for both of you (mandatory).
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