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Old 05-09-2017, 11:07 AM
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My concern is that currently the optics of it are such that it makes her look bad, difficult, unreasonable, etc. Which is in your favor for any court actions that come up.

If its already a bad scene occurring at the daycares place, picking up your child will probably solve the issue the first time you do it, when it takes the mother by surprise. The question that you have to ask before starting this though, is what is going to happen the next week when you go to do the same? If things get nasty at the school, in full view of the public, the school will likely end up getting involved, and your solution no longer removes the child from conflict, but instead has escalated it.

You know your ex better than anyone here and would be the best one to judge how she will react and if it will escalate things.
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