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Old 05-03-2017, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted by trinton View Post
what motivates them to do so? what makes them feel they own you and your life?
What motivates anyone to do anything? They perceive the outcome to be worth the effort.

The question is, what does your ex GAIN by treating you this way?

feeling powerful
punishing you for whatever wrongdoings she perceives
increasing the CS they receive
minimizing how much interaction they have to have with you
gaining allies against you
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