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Old 03-25-2017, 03:02 PM
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I think it's ok to recognize the divorce and process and traumatic and can "Engulf" you.

I also think properly managing the divorce process and letting yourself be concerned with it is a good thing. The repercussions that come out of your divorce will impact you, and your children till you die.

I've never regretted for one minute the time I spent on the divorce. I am a 100% better, smarter, informed and better person because of it.

That being said, you need to recognize that you are either engaging in conflict because you are looking out for your best interests and the best interests of your kids or because you are stupid. As long as you can "make a difference" then spend the time, learning and researching. Once the conflict is over, move on to something else keeping the lessons about the injustice of the legal system.
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