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Old 03-24-2017, 04:09 PM
trinton trinton is offline
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trinton has a little shameless behaviour in the past
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you are focused on beating/controlling your ex.
See it's the other way around. She is beating and controlling me every step of the way. I can't have a proper holiday with my child. I'm told when to see her, when to pick her up, and when to drop her off, and from where and to where. I have no say in anything concerning my child.

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The moment you approach this as living your life and focusing on your needs and your daughters needs, you will see an opportunity to detach.
I am focused on her needs, but I am helpless and powerless. Nothing I say counts or matters. I'm just a paycheque.

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You are not a victim and you dont need to "get" your ex. Its a process you are working through to be a part of your childs life. Let the shit with your hatred for your ex go.

I am a victim. I was cut out of my childs life, and turned into a visitor. I was never given any legal aid lawyer when she was, though we were fully eligible. Not only was I victim, I was also discriminated against. I'm not trying to "get" my "ex". I'm trying to "get" my "child" "back".

As long as I love my child more than I hate my ex, I think i'll be okay.
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