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Old 10-30-2016, 05:54 PM
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That was quite the long read!

I'll try to summarize:

1) You had 50/50 custody
2) You signed some idiotic agreement without talking to a lawyer
3) You moved 160km away to save money and gave up shared custody
4) Ex is willing to offer you shared custody, but you say that you cannot afford it.
5) Ex is asking for retro CS, which will further hamper you financially.

My thoughts:

1) Move back to city with kids, regain shared custody while you can.
2) Worry about the money after.

If you don't regain shared custody soon, you will never be able to afford to have the kids. You have to get shared custody. Your income is not terrible if you are paying over $1400 a month for CS, so you can make it work.

Dump your girlfriend, be with your kids.
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