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Old 09-15-2014, 12:20 PM
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From what I gather, your Ex seems to be a very impulsive person, (act now think later). That would explain a lot of what has been happening with regards to your children.
You need to act with caution with a person like that. Push too hard and she's likely to accuse you of harassment - though her behavior is far from appropriate.

Before going the legal route, try to set up some counseling for the kids via their school - it would be less of a battle with the Ex and certainly would minimize the children's anxiety.

** another thought, you could explain it to the Ex in a non threatening way. "I think the kids need to express their feelings about our divorce ect. not I think you are a crazy-knife-throwing-idiot and I want to prove it''. The best way to get her to agree with the idea is to not go behind her back.

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