I agree, it is very normal to feel like that when someone you thought you would be spending the rest of your life with ends up making those plans with someone else. But, when you feel like this, look back at what brought you two to where you are now, and be glad that he is someone else's problem and not yours anymore. When I found out my ex moved his new girlfriend co-worker in with him I was livid. But then I thought about it and realized that hey, now he won't bother me anymore and I was definately thankful for that, but I feel sorry for her and what I know she will go through at his hands. All you can do is hope that he gets what is coming to him. Always think on the bright side. It could also be that he does not know how to do it on his own, he needs to be with someone kind of thing.
Call a friend over, have a good stiff drink, and like me, feel sorry for the girl who has agreed to marry him, and laugh about the "catch" she has. Chin up, this too is something you can and will get over. Good luck on the job front too.
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