sufferer,
as you mentioned,
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resolving the issues my ex is trying hard to complicate them.Now he came up (send to my lawyer)with a list of items which we never even had.He claims about some silver and golden items which were not even there in matrimonial home.
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If you don't have the items, respond formally by way of your own lawyers letter to his respective solicitor that you do not have same and that this is the first time you have even became aware that perhaps an item existed. The onus is also on the individual to prove such existed and that they are indeed in your possession.
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How can be he so nasty and accuse me for things which never belonged to us.What can i do about it.
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Simply put, this is part of their strategy to wear you down and perhaps attempt to show you are vindictive. Perception is everything in Family Court. Don't fall the trap. Be very pleasant and full of grace in your lawyers letter or your own authored and state that you don't have the items, but if you should come across same, that you will promptly return.
This puts the ball in their court to prove that the items existed and that they are in your possession. On the balance of probabilities, this may be difficult to prove.
In regards to your other issues, I suspect you will have to perhaps input an income to him for support purposes on the grounds that they have undermined their ability to earn income.
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